The Hellish/Heavenish Bar

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Tue May 30, 2006 17:55

Yeah, pass me a jug of beer. It's good to be back

Anyway, it's weekend in a couple of days so we have to celebrate!!

CHEERS

Railwaymodeler · Post by **Railwaymodeler** » Tue May 30, 2006 18:48

Espenso, I would give my prized 10 car paper and wood passenger train to be in your position right now.

Seriosuly though, there's not much I can say, not having too much experience with females like that.

Should have some time ahead of me, so I'll be visiting here and OG a bit more.

Cheers, everyone!

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Tue May 30, 2006 19:11

Well, if I can give you a tip with the ladies, there's two things that increases your chances drastically; 1. Be yourself, as they will see through you in an instant if you're trying to be something you're not. 2. Self esteem. I have the feeling that women are attracted to guys with self esteem. Maybe anyone of the ladies here can give me a little insight on this.

BTW, never underestimate the power of her girlfriends. Be nice to them aswell as the girl you're trying to hook up with, as this will make them confirm that you are the right choice.

Post by **Chroelle** » Tue May 30, 2006 19:48

Thanks for the greets people

Ancsur: You'll do great. You know it deep within yourself!

Espenso: Let's say that you should have fun, but keep in mind that what is fun is also some times "dangerous". I can't say I have been in your situation recently, but I do remember the times when things like this happened, and you felt like a player....

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Tue May 30, 2006 20:01

I never said I felt like a player, but I was worried that other people might see me like that, which I really don't want them to.
I'm actually a really nice guy... But sometimes I get carried a little away...

Post by **Chroelle** » Tue May 30, 2006 20:07

Sorry. That was what I meant. That other people see you as one, and you don't feel like one...
I actually thought of calling up a girl I once "dated" to say that I was sorry for what I did, when I promised her some things and then didn't live up to them...

I felt pretty bad about myself...

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Tue May 30, 2006 20:17

Well the way I see it is your young once, I never got the chance to play around like that when I went out clubbing at uni, but a lot of my friends did it. When I mean I didn't get a chance to it because I was with my boyfriend so I got to take someone home with me

As long as you are honest about it then it will be find, others may see you as a player but I think all single outgoing people go through that stage in their lives.

You may have regrests about it in the future but if its fine in your opinion to do it then why is there a problem

As for you chroelle (that sounds like I am about to tell you off

) I pesonally think its a bad idea to phone ex's to say sorry, whats done is done and if an ex phoned me to say they were sorry I would wonder why. unless I was still friends with that person and still saw them on a regular basis. But even then I wold think it was strange as I would be able to see that they had change from who they were in the past. The past is suposed to stay in the past, as long as you learn from it then thats all that matters. After all you haven't lived a life if you have made no mistakes and have no regrets.

EDIT: RYM how could I forget to say this to you. Self confidence is a key, if you go out and think to yourself no girl will be intrested in me then they will be able to tell this. See us females have magical powers that let us know such things. Ok not really but you have to believe that you could meet someone in order to meet someone, that way you will have the confidence to go up to them rather then just look at think that you have no chance.

Post by **Chroelle** » Tue May 30, 2006 20:20

That was pretty much the conclusion that made me not call her up

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Tue May 30, 2006 20:24

well its go to know that someone follwed my advise before I had even given it to them

...ohh ok you followed your own advise

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Tue May 30, 2006 20:27

Ex's should NOT be called, except if you're still friends with them. I still keep touch with some of them, but I have noticed that if you've been to bed with a person, it's hard to going back to just being friends again...

mariesa · Post by **mariesa** » Tue May 30, 2006 20:57

conclusion: be nice, honest and selfconfident and forget the sentence "will we still be friends???" because in 90 % it doesn't work... (experiences

)

and now it's time to change the subject:
It's ladies night... where are my cocktails, my dinner, my massage, my live band???
(of course "my" stands for every feminin members (aren't so many, right??))

Post by **Chroelle** » Tue May 30, 2006 21:09

I do an awsome backrub, and I have worked as a bartender.
Here is a little experience that will make my motto: "The crew works for the members" make sense

*Curly makes Strawberry Daiquries for all the female members, and pulls up a small massage table.

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Tue May 30, 2006 21:16

ohh does that mean I don't get a massage after Marisa

well a few stawberry daiquries sound nice to me

so I will sit over here an flutter my eyelashes in your direction chroelle in hope that I will get a massage even if you don't work for me

Post by **Chroelle** » Tue May 30, 2006 21:23

Well the chain of command is turned upside down in my world. I mean: Members come here, and ask for something, which the crew then asks the admins to do. So in that way the admin is the slave to the rest of the members. The only thing is that we choose when to do things and when not to...

So in short: Keep batting those eyelashes, and you'll be next!

(Now I start to sound like a player again

)

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Tue May 30, 2006 21:45

Hey! My massage is great, or at least that's what I hear. So if you girls aren't scared of me,

I'll be happy to give you a massage. Just tell me what massage-oils you like best and I'll get right on it!

mariesa · Post by **mariesa** » Tue May 30, 2006 22:10

what should I say?
nice guys

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Tue May 30, 2006 22:53

I was thinking, when we were finished with the massage, maybe I could interest you in some homemade lasagne with my own special pasta-sauce. But if it doesn't suit you, be sure to let me know and I will gladly make your wishes come trur, as this is ladies night

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Tue May 30, 2006 22:57

well I better keep fluttering my eyelashes some more

espenso do you use that line on all the girls you meet

but homemade lasagne sounds reallys nice, providing I get to eat it here

I think I like this ladies night, I feel that we should have them a little more oftern

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Tue May 30, 2006 23:03

That line is only used on those very special ones, like yourself and maybe mariesa

But of course you get to eat it wherever you want! That's what ladies night is all about, isn't it?? Just being there for the women of the world and making them feel good about themselves

SGSW · Post by **SGSW** » Wed May 31, 2006 0:39

Well Pitkin, Chillum, Monteque, espenso, fadedmind aka Maz and eMTe prepare to ship 3 crates of your national strongest beer to Tinoco and 2 crates of the same beer to me.

Belated Happy Birthday to Railo, retaliator and Zandy

Congrats to Maz for finishing his project and Chrolle for a wonderful vacations, I'm really glad you had such a great timer and you told us everything about it, great post.

Hello everyone, it's me I'm back and I had avery busy and tiring fortnight, with tests, works, and 2 days of cataloguing books, so the ladies night is going to suffer one minor change.

One of the ladies is going to be a sweetheart and give me a very long backrub and then it's going to share a barrel of her favourite drink with me. Is that understood?

And give me a barrel of bagaço to celebrate the fact that this bar has passed the 1000 posts mark

@Dizi
I find your Avatar to be very sad ... do you me to comfort you for your sorrows?

BTW As for keeping in touch with exs and such. Doesn't anybody here believes in the chance of Redemption?