The Hellish/Heavenish Bar

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 20:50

Hi there! How´s it hanging everyone?? i made a BIG mistake this weekend.... I was at this party Saturday night, and everything was going well, maybe even too well. I meet this girl and we talk and all that. Actually we get along REALLY well. So, by the end of the party, we head over to her place and I spend the night. But when I wake up the next morning, I have this nagging feeling inside... So I ask the girl; "how old are you??" Then she says;"Im sixteen..... " geeeez..... That was a bummer. WHY CAN´T GIRLS WEAR TAGS WITH THEIR BIRTHDAY ON IT??? or maybe I should´ve asked sooner?? What do you think?

SGSW · Post by **SGSW** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 20:57

What's the bloody problem espenso, if you like each other age doesn't give a damn ... or is it ilegal to date minors in Norway? Or maybe you were being unfaithful to the girl of your dreams and you have a conscience problem now

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 21:02

The problem is that I don´t really care for her at all, I´m just out for a little fun, that´s all. And don´t you think that she´s a little young when she just turned 16? And you have to be 16 to have sex in norway....

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 21:31

well you had fun she had fun, you did nothing illegal...and like a lot of one night stands you had regrets in the moring...so what if there was 5 years between you. just think yourself lucky she wasn't 15.

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 21:48

yup, thanx, I probably overreacted, but still, 16 is way below my limit... Next time I´ll ask for some ID, hehe. So, anyone else who had fun this weekend....?

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 21:59

Well mistakes will happen, you can't go through life without a few regrets.

I had a great weekend, went out last night with mny boyfriend as I said I would

he wasn't kicking and screaming which was good. Plus he said we should do things like that more often, so he must of enjoyed himself too. We went out to the pub then for a meal and rented a film out too, so there were no computers involved what-so-ever.

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 22:12

Hey, good for you. Maybe you converted him to a more social life?? hehe, it IS good to get out sometimes. I should probably think the other way, and stay in some more... at least for the next weekends

I´ll get my paycheck April 7th, and then it will be loads of whiskey for me!!! muahahaha, muaha*cough cough*haaa. more water pleeease

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 22:20

your young free and single or at least I hope single if you had a bit of fun with someone over the weekend

so you have every right to go and and enjoy yourself as much as money will allow you too. Thats my opinion anyway

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 22:29

Yep, that´s my motto; "Have fun while you´re young, tomorrow you might be sitting there with kids, a nagging wife, downpayments on a loan and regret you didn´t enjoy life while you could

" It seems like it´s pretty quiet here today. Or maybe no one has anything to say?? hehe

SGSW · Post by **SGSW** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 23:03

The problem is that I don´t really care for her at all, I´m just out for a little fun, that´s all. And don´t you think that she´s a little young when she just turned 16? And you have to be 16 to have sex in norway....

So as Dizi put it, you didn't nothing wrong andas far as I know kids are becoming more precoces ("experienced") younger and younger, at least where I live and yes age might be an encumbance to a real relationship while we're young but an one night-stand is exactly that, if you think it's immoral to take advantage of someone much younger than you, ask her age casually before you do it

I had a great weekend, went out last night with mny boyfriend as I said I would he wasn't kicking and screaming which was good. Plus he said we should do things like that more often, so he must of enjoyed himself too. We went out to the pub then for a meal and rented a film out too, so there were no computers involved what-so-ever.

Glad you both had fun, I am happy for you (that and the fact that I don't have to go there and tell him some things)

Post by **Chroelle** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 23:20

I can totally relate to your situation Espenso. I once had a one-night stand. I was only 17 but the girl turned out to be 14 which was a year younger than the minimum age.....

So for the next few weeks I was just waiting to hear from her parents... But I didn't. Actually they thought I was a step up from her previous boyfriends, and was glad when I returned a couple of years later.

Actually I have had quite the weird relationships in the past, (not with any one minor or anything) but like dated twins, one after the other. Dated sisters later on and such. I just need the mom/daughter thingy now

But as I got older I also realised that there was only one girl for me, and she was older than me. My current GF through 3 ½ year now. She is 29 going on 30

. I'm still in my mid twenties...[cough]

So I would say: Go for older women next time

espenso84 · Post by **espenso84** » Mon Mar 20, 2006 23:34

I´ve been there too.... A mother-daughter thingy can get REALLY problematic, believe me! But my real problem is that I can´t find anyone to share a relationship with... Listen to me, it really feels like this is "Espenso-problem-day" hehe. I shouldn´t complain really. I´m just too picky I guess.

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 0:00

lol, I hope my boyfriend doesn't take your advise Chroelle, as I am 2 years younger than him. Although we have been together for almost 6 years now so I must be doing something right

As for weird relationships, I haven't had any that I can think of...nope all normal as far as my standards know them to be.

SGSW · Post by **SGSW** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 0:06

lol, I hope my boyfriend doesn't take your advise Chroelle, as I am 2 years younger than him. Although we have been together for almost 6 years now so I must be doing something right

BTW when are you going to get married?

Oh and I have a special announcement (especially for the really old guard of OG)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO KMILLO

If he ever shows up in here he is to be treated with the utmost respect and presented with as many barrels of beer as he wants.

People which I find to ignore the regulation will suffer harsh penalties

Maz · Post by **Maz** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 0:21

Weird relationships? Weird one nighters?? ...
Errmmm... I think I'll leave that topic to others, or I might never have a chance to play 'Darts' with Diz again

Sigh... My presentation is almost done, and I still have some hours to sleep before I need to give it :/ I just wish I could speak English at least as well as I write it... But no. When ever I need to start talking, all words, phrases and so on are missing. I need to think in Finnish, and translate it into English to be able to talk... And that makes it sound clumsy... I wonder why I can perfectly well think in English when I'm writing/reading, but when I need to talk... Shi*. And I did not even mention my pronouncing...

Well, thank god I know all the participants at some level, and only people who do not speak Finnish at all are the two chinese co-workers... And they cannot really complain about my english...

Km 13 is here? Great!
Happy Bday Km! It has been ages since I talked to you last time

I think you could add something about my rant threads in the oracle forum

EDIT:
Damn. I should have read the rest of the previous post too

So he's not here

Then I'd better just sit down,

and wait for him to join...

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 0:34

SG I'm still way to young to think about that, we live like a married couple now anyway, I don't think we need a piece of paper to make things different.

ohh and fadedmind, you have me confused with someone else. I only play 'Darts' with Maz

SGSW · Post by **SGSW** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 2:26

SG I'm still way to young to think about that, we live like a married couple now anyway, I don't think we need a piece of paper to make things different.

Then under my law you are a couple and should be treated as Mr and Mrs, even if you are only partners by law or whatever you call it

Dizi · Post by **Dizi** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 12:13

good morning all..or afternoon or night depending on where you are

I think I need a malibu as all this drilling is starting to get on me nerves...but they are putting in the new kitchen and bathroom today so at least its looking like something, unlike the past few days where it was looking like nothing.

Tinoco · Post by **Tinoco** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 12:24

Yellow everyone!

Dizi is getting maried? NO just moving in with her boyfriend? No already did that! And no celebration... why she sould pay for the drink the reminder of the week

Just droped by for that big hug and see you soon! Well at least when clix decide to install my new internet

Chillum · Post by **Chillum** » Tue Mar 21, 2006 15:28

We gotta do something about that smilie... It seems just one step below

Maybe you can use one of these instead? Took me 2 minutes to edit the original..

IMO they look better, but I don't really know which one of them is the best..